Chosen Through Humility: Finding True Greatness in Serving Others
Palm Sunday – March 29, 2026
In our world today, the desire for individual success and attention is ‘normalised’. There is something positive about this, for every person is unique and important in the eyes of God. Yet we should ask: has this obsession with self-promotion contributed to the rise in mental health struggles over decades? Pope Francis gave us simple but profound words (25-3-17):
“Rivers do not drink their own water;
trees do not eat their own fruit;
the sun does not shine on itself and
flowers do not spread their fragrance for themselves.
Living for others is a rule of nature.
We are all born to help each other.
No matter how difficult it is…
Life is good when you are happy;
but much better when others are happy because of you.”
Our first reading calls us to cultivate the ability to speak well (wisdom with certainty of a wide knowledge): success and wisdom are not automatic with age: they grow through listening, perseverance in learning and resilience (courage when opposed). Many young people can feel unheard or dismissed, but Isaiah shows us the value of having “a well-trained tongue”: the ability to sustain others. This is especially urgent at a time when the social media craze/ addiction often undermines deep learning and authentic growth. And that means, less opportunities to be chosen for greatness.
Why are some not selected? The 2nd Reading helps us understand: it reveals the humility of Christ, which then leads to Exaltation (read: chosen/ appreciated/ praised); service and sacrifice always precede exaltation.
It is normal for young people to wrestle with identity, pride, and the pressure to “prove themselves.” Instead of comparing ourselves to others, or relying on social media validation, and the temptation to look for status, Christ reassures us that: helping others (love in action), leads to true honour, acceptance and being entrusted with greater responsibilities: ie. being chosen, leads to status and respect.
Finally, the Passion narrative reminds us that betrayal, loneliness, and injustice are part of life’s journey. Yet Jesus transforms suffering into redemption. His example offers hope to young people facing rejection, depression, or broken relationships.
For us older generations, let us remember our duty to encourage and support younger people: through words but, even more, through our humble service. Families that engage in community service embody this truth. And, when mistakes happen, as Peter shows us, simple words of apology bring healing and growth.
Parents and young people alike, be gentle on yourselves. Reflect again on the poem by Pope Francis: “Life is good when you are happy; but much better when others are happy because of you.”
By Gerard Conlan, OMI
